Do you believe women or men win this?

Do you believe men or women are more secretive, selfish and conniving ? I'm NOT talking evil in a sense of murder or crime. I'm talking about sneaky, secretive men/women that use their partners, lie to get their way or use their body or looks? I know a woman myself that wasnt too well off and married a rich man he fell in love with her and she fell in love with his money and buys her absolutely anything she desires, and i know for a fact she doesn't love him because she is always seeing other men, younger then her wealthy husband