Is it ok for me to be in love with him yet want to separate from him?

Wow! they say things happen 4 a reason.I hav the same problem.im at the end of my rope,as you are.yes its time to leave but its so hard.i wish you& i could talk.i no i sure as hell need to with someone going through the same thing.mannojimmy@ymail.com if you want to just talk.